You should be well groomed and looking your best. That doesn t mean I don t want you looking your best. Unless you are pregnant, or you have recently given birth to a child or you have other physical or psychological issues that might be preventing you from having intercourse with your boyfriend, he should not be masturbating that often.
The only way you will ever find out if UK dating is for you is to register and give it a try. And in the Christian life in general, and dating in particular, personal holiness should be your main aim.